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Break Ups
Suck! You give all you have to a relationship. You give your heart to an
individual. You count on them to make you whole. Then it's all over...and,
just like that, you are left a 'half', incomplete, non-sufficiant. Ugh! That
sucks!
I hope on these pages you can find some comfort and understanding during
this difficult time. I hope we can help you recover from your broken
heart.
Break Ups Suck
- but they don't have to! If you think about it, when you
were in a relationship there must have been, in some part of it, a time when
you wished you were single. Right? Sometimes we envy those who are 'free'
when we are not, and we envy those who are 'in a relationship' when
we are not. Break Ups Suck, yes, but being single has a lot of great
things to say about it!
Need Help With Your Breakup Right
Now?
When Love Ends in
a Break Up
By Tigress Luv, the Breakup Guru
Unless you are
one of those fortunate few who met their soulmate in grade school, married
right out of high school, and spent the next 60 years in wedded bliss you
are going to go through what millions before you have gone through, and what
millions after you will go through - a broken heart. The pain experienced
during a breakup is as individual as the millions of people who go through
it. While some simply shake the dust off and get right back into the dating
game, others are left so devastated that they never date again, spending
the rest of their life in bitter solitude. Why the difference? Could some
of us just be stronger than others? Do some people love harder than others?
Are some loves more connected than others?
For most of us who experience
a breakup a normal grieving period will occur: Denial and Isolation, Anger,
Bargaining, Depression, and finally Acceptance. But for some, the grief and
devastation are so severe that they end up hospitalized, and even suicidal.
Others remain either bitter or so afraid of getting hurt that they never
date again, closing off their hearts to just about everyone. Yet, some don't
even grieve at all, subconsciously choosing to simply transfer their feelings
for one person immediately onto that of another person in what is called
a rebound relationship.
Why the variation? Well, a
lot of it has to do with our loving style. There are many loving styles ranging
from the very healthy, to the desperately needy. While one person may love
another in a supportive and healthy way, another person may cling onto their
mate simply as a way to fix what they imagine to be wrong with themselves.
They use their partner as a method of dealing with their own imagined
inadequacies or feelings of unworthiness - feeling good only as long as they
are in the relationship. Others simply like the 'high' of being in love.
This high becomes addictive to them and they hop from one relationship instantly
into another - often times head-over-heels in love by the second date. They
recklessly seek 'love' much as an addict will seek a 'fix', and are often
so in need of being in love that they imagine their partners to have all
the qualities they are looking for in a mate - whether their partners actually
possess these qualities or not. Still others simply surrender themselves
into their relationships quickly losing themselves and their own sense of
individuality, becoming 'the relationship'. Should the relationship end,
then shall they, too.
A healthy view of oneself,
one's partner, and one's relationship is essential to withstanding the ups,
and downs, in our eternal search for that special someone to share our lives
with.
by Tigress Luv , the Breakup
Guru
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To
Love Yourself!
"IT IS REWARDING
to find someone you like, but it is essential to like yourself. It is quickening
to recognize that someone is a good and decent human being, but it is
indispensable to view yourself as acceptable. It is a delight to discover
people who are worthy of respect and admiration and love, but it is vital
to believe yourself deserving of these things. For you cannot live in someone
else. You cannot find yourself in someone else. You cannot be given a life
by someone else. Of all the people you will know in a lifetime, you are the
only one you will never leave or lose. To the question of your life, you
are the only answer. To the problems of your life, you are the only
solution."
~JO COUDERT , American writer
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