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When Love
Ends
by Tigress Luv ,
the Breakup Guru
Unless you are one of those
fortunate few who met their soulmate in grade school, married right out of
high school, and spent the next 60 years in wedded bliss you are going to
go through what millions before you have gone through, and what millions
after you will go through - a broken heart. The pain experienced during a
breakup is as individual as the millions of people who go through it. While
some simply shake the dust off and get right back into the dating game, others
are left so devastated that they never date again, spending the rest of their
life in bitter solitude. Why the difference? Could some of us just be stronger
than others? Do some people love harder than others? Are some loves more
connected than others?
For most of us who experience a breakup
a normal grieving period will occur: Denial and Isolation, Anger, Bargaining,
Depression, and finally Acceptance. But for some, the grief and devastation
are so severe that they end up hospitalized, and even suicidal. Others remain
either bitter or so afraid of getting hurt that they never date again, closing
off their hearts to just about everyone. Yet, some don't even grieve at all,
subconsciously choosing to simply transfer their feelings for one person
immediately onto that of another person in what is called a rebound
relationship.
Why the variation? Well, a lot of it
has to do with our loving style. There are many loving styles ranging from
the very healthy, to the desperately needy. While one person may love another
in a supportive and healthy way, another person may cling onto their mate
simply as a way to fix what they imagine to be wrong with themselves. They
use their partner as a method of dealing with their own imagined inadequacies
or feelings of unworthiness - feeling good only as long as they are in the
relationship. Others simply like the 'high' of being in love. This high becomes
addictive to them and they hop from one relationship instantly into another
- often times head-over-heels in love by the second date. They recklessly
seek 'love' much as an addict will seek a 'fix', and are often so in need
of being in love that they imagine their partners to have all the qualities
they are looking for in a mate - whether their partners actually possess
these qualities or not. Still others simply surrender themselves into their
relationships quickly losing themselves and their own sense of individuality,
becoming 'the relationship'. Should the relationship end, then shall they,
too.
A healthy view of oneself, one's partner,
and one's relationship is essential to withstanding the ups, and downs, in
our eternal search for that special someone to share our lives with. For
more information on breakups and loving-styles visit
http://aboutyourbreakup.com
by Tigress Luv ,
the Breakup Guru
Tigress Luv , the Breakup Guru,
is the author of How to STOP a Breakup, an
instantly available webBook and website, or downloadable ebook, designed
to help you STOP or reverse your breakup and get your ex back, and
How to Get Over a Breakup, also an instantly
available online webBook and website, or ebook download, designed to help
you understand and heal from a broken heart . Both are available on this
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To
Love Yourself!
"IT IS REWARDING
to find someone you like, but it is essential to like yourself. It is quickening
to recognize that someone is a good and decent human being, but it is
indispensable to view yourself as acceptable. It is a delight to discover
people who are worthy of respect and admiration and love, but it is vital
to believe yourself deserving of these things. For you cannot live in someone
else. You cannot find yourself in someone else. You cannot be given a life
by someone else. Of all the people you will know in a lifetime, you are the
only one you will never leave or lose. To the question of your life, you
are the only answer. To the problems of your life, you are the only
solution."
~JO COUDERT , American writer
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